was blog hopping and happened to saw something very meaningful.
a girl was mentioning about how she and her bf last for 3 years.
and how they managed to get together.


normal couples will go through a stage of quarreling.
intention of breaking up.
but how we really handle it to make things last is another issue.


so she was saying that one must suffer and hold onto it.
well, question to ask is how many times can you handle this?
are you sure that the party will really endure?
will the party forgive and forget?
how many people can really do it?


i'm pretty sure i wont be able to do that.
once twice still okay with it.
but after several times i will not take all this nonsense again.
well, that's for me.


i was indeed really impressed on how they really maintain their relationship.
if it's me, of course is a failure.
that's why my relationship don't last.
it also depends on how fated it is and the situation like.


in a relationship, there isn't a right or wrong answer.
is whether you two are really fated to be together.


trying to think about my future.
whether am i able to take this and maintain it throughout?
how long will it last?
can i be a good girlfriend? (well, at least for now is NO!)
hahaha.
giving some thoughts about it.
but now, let nature take it's course.
no more hurry, no more silly.
just me, myself. =D